A valuable aspect of contemporary funerals is their individuality. Whether a ceremony is elaborate or simple, funerals are often individualized to reflect the life of the deceased and to hold special meaning for family and other survivors. A service may reflect one's religious beliefs as a reaffirmation of faith in a greater life beyond this world. Some families choose to reflect upon the occupation or hobbies of the deceased, and some choose to center the service around an ethnic background or social affiliation.
In our society, three basic forms of final disposition are practiced:
The first is earth burial, which continues to be the form of disposition chosen most often.
Cremation is also a choice. This is a process of preparing the body for final disposition whereby the body is reduced by intense heat over several hours to a few pounds of small fragments. These cremated remains are usually placed in an urn, which may be buried, placed in a memorial niche, or kept in some other location. Cremated remains may also be scattered where permitted by law.
Finally, entombment in a crypt is also a choice and is one of the oldest forms of disposition. Today many cemeteries maintain crypts for entombment, which may be in a mausoleum or in an outdoor garden. |
It has been estimated that over 136 individual activities must take place in order for one funeral to be conducted. The funeral director is actually an organizational specialist.
Here is a condensed list of some of the more visible activities of a typical funeral director and staff:
• Removal and transferring the deceased from place of death to the funeral home.
• Professional care of the deceased, which may include sanitary washing, embalming, preparation, restorative art, dressing, hairdressing, casketing and cosmetology.
• Conduct a complete consultation with family members to gather necessary information and to discuss specific arrangements for a funeral.
• File all certificates, permits, affidavits, and authorizations, as may be required.
• Acquire a requested amount of certified copies of the death certificate needed to settle the estate of the deceased.
• Compile information and create an obituary for placement in the newspaper and/or website of the family's choice.
• Make arrangements with a family's choice of clergy person, church, music, etc.
• Make arrangements with cemetery, crematory, or other place of disposition.
• The providing of a register book, prayer cards, funeral folders, and acknowledgements, as requested by a family.
• Offer the assistance of notifying relatives and friends.
• Arrange for clergy honorariums, music, flowers, death certificates, obituaries, additional transportation, etc.
• Care and arrangement of floral pieces and the post funeral distribution as directed by a family.
• Arrange for pallbearers, automobiles, and special services (fraternal or military) as requested by a family
• Care and preservation of all floral cards, mass cards, or other memorial contributions presented to the funeral home.
• Your funeral director, with his/her staff personnel, will direct the funeral in a most professional manner, and be in complete charge of the funeral procession to the cemetery or other place of disposition.
• Assist a family with social security, veterans insurance, grief counseling, and other death-related claims.
• A post funeral meeting, by the funeral director, with a family, to deliver such things as the register book, floral and mass cards, and to ascertain whether or not he/she can be of further assistance.
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Planning a funeral in advance can help eliminate financial burdens that often weigh upon the people we love most. Planning also means better informed decisions about the service details and expense. It can also alleviate some of the stress resulting from the loss of a loved one by giving the family a sense of control and a place at which to start the grieving process. Most of all, pre-planning means peace of mind for you and your family.
There are other questions that you may have in regards to the death of your loved one, such as “do I have to have embalming, do I need to purchase a casket, what about cemetery arrangements, does the family have a minister, do we want cremation, visitation,. . . ?” By contacting Brown Funeral Home we will be able to assist you in answering any of your questions. However, one of the best ways to make sure that all of your questions, and desires for the type of service you have in mind, are answered is by taking the time to make pre-arrangements. This process may be as simple as outlining your wishes to having all of the details written down and the financial arrangements prepaid. Simply contact Steve Hedges, our Preplanning Consultant, at 304-263-8896 for information or to make an appointment.
We invite you to contact Brown Funeral Home for any questions you may have. |
